Speaking Events with Valentina

HEAL YOUR HEART WITH HYPNOTHERAPY

Healing Love: Rewire Your Brain For Deeper Connection

Are you longing for a love that feels like magic?

A connection that transcends the ordinary and ignites your soul?

At Happy Ever After, we believe that lasting love isn’t just a fairytale—it’s a journey of self-discovery, healing, and conscious connection.

Our childhood experiences, the way we received love growing up, our first heartbreak, are all engraved in the intricate patterns of our brains and the cells of our bodies. Everything we’ve been through may be in the past but those memories are always with us, ready to be revived by current circumstances.

Through the power of hypnotherapy, we’ll help you rewrite your love story and create a relationship that truly fulfils you.

 

Are your emotions running wild when things don’t go your way and you have no idea how to stop them?

Have you ever heard the phrase “The success of your relationship depends entirely on the amount of discomfort you can tolerate”? 

It is a fact that romantic relationships are challenging. Not only because we are not educated on how to handle them and be a good partner, but because they tend to cause us a lot of discomfort. Often we get ‘triggered’.  We use this word a lot but have we really tried to understand what it means?

In simple terms, when circumstances in our present environment remind us of painful moments of the past, our brain reacts as if we’re back in that space where the trauma happened and we are literally being hijacked by that old version of ourselves. 

We often say “I was not even myself, I have no idea why I got so mad”. 

This is a sign of past subconscious trauma playing havoc with your love life. 

 

If the past cannot be undone, what can we do about it?

The reason we are haunted by our past is not because we can remember those events vividly.

It is because the facts of those events are profoundly entangled with the painful emotional meaning we made at that time. What’s coming up today as anger may have been originally unexpressed guilt we’ve never forgiven ourselves for. 

That’s what we need to heal. Neutralize the pain to keep the memories like old faded photographs. Maybe we keep a little nostalgia but release everything else.

How Hypnotherapy Can Help You Resolve Relationship Issues:

  • Enhance Communication: Break down communication barriers, develop deeper empathy, and express your needs and desires with clarity and confidence by exposing and reframing unconscious patterns you carry from childhood or previous relationships.

  • Heal Past Hurts: Release emotional baggage from unresolved past relationships or childhood experiences that are impacting your current connection so you can be truly present for and with your partner.

  • Increase Intimacy: Cultivate deeper intimacy and emotional connection with your partner by removing intimacy blocks and addressing self-esteem issues.

  • Resolve Conflict Constructively: Discover and address the source of your emotional triggers and heal the trauma that created them so you can respond neutrally to challenging situations.

  • Build Trust and Safety: Create a safe and secure space for vulnerability and emotional intimacy by unlocking patterns that keep you in fear and anxiety and prevent you from trusting yourself and others.

  • Strengthen Your Bond: Identify and release all subconscious blocks that keep you from creating a deeper sense of connection and commitment with your partner.

  • Explore Past Life/Soul Mate Connections: Some relationships feel out of this world intense and that is for a reason. It may be you have met this person before and you have some karmic baggage that keeps pushing you towards each other. Resolve toxic attraction and rebalance unhealed energies by exploring the past.

What Can Hypnotherapy Help With?

Fast resolution of complex personal and interpersonal issues by triggering neuroplasticity

Clarity on Life Purpose and ability to make decisions about the future with confidence and trust

Reprogram your mind by rewiring your neural connections to help you reframe your relationship experiences

Ability to speak your mind, communicate your needs and wants and resolve ongoing conflicts 

Identify and reframe your core issues and resolve childhood trauma

Release anxiety and fear about the future, address addictions and unhealthy attachments and release negative emotions

Deepen your connections with others by taking responsibility for your own emotional response

I reached out to Valentina at a pivotal point last year, when I faced challenges in moving on from unhealthy and ruminative situations. Her personal approach and clear goals set a foundation for me to build a path to gaining my confidence in romantic relationships.  What I liked about the sessions were that they were personalised and concentrated on me and understanding my limiting beliefs, setting my standards in terms of a partner and my values vs ‘how to get the guy’ type coaching out there. I mostly found hypnosis therapy most effective and Valentina always assessed ‘how’ I completed the exercises so that it was evident they created a positive impact in me

A.M. | Hong Kong

My sessions with Valentina were incredible. I’ve done hypnotherapy before but I didn’t find it effective. Valentina’s session was so powerful! It allowed me to find areas that need work and the release I felt was so profound. I can’t recommend her enough!

L.C. | Hong Kong

I cannot express enough gratitude for the incredible help and support I received from Valentina. From the moment I walked into her office, I felt a sense of calm and reassurance. She created a safe and comfortable environment, allowing me to open up and address the issues I was facing.

Through her expertise and guidance, I was able to tap into my subconscious mind and uncover deep-rooted beliefs and patterns that were holding me back. Her gentle and compassionate approach helped me feel at ease throughout the entire process.

N.T. | Hong Kong

J’ai eu ma toute première XP en hypnothérapie avec Valentina et c’était déroutant. On oscille entre le sommeil et l’éveil, on plonge dans un univers vaste et sans limite.
C’est un lâcher-prise particulier nécessitant beaucoup de confiance envers la personne qui nous guide, et Valentina est une de ces personnes à qui on peut faire confiance.
J’ai beaucoup apprécié le temps pris pour m’expliquer le séance, car j’étais un peu perdue.
J’en suis ressortie détendue, confiante et sereine.
Je recommande Valentina à toutes celles et ceux qui souhaitent découvrir l’hypnothérapie et débloquer certaines choses dans leur vie.

M.K. | Paris, France

Is Hypnotherapy The Answer For You?

You’ve tried counselling, coaching and traditional therapy before…and nothing seems to be changing.

There is a simple explanation for this. All of the above modalities require conscious awareness of the root cause of your issues, as well as a huge amount of willpower. Since the subconscious mind is 6000 times more powerful than our conscious, there is no surprise you don’t see any results. 

Sometimes the problem is obvious: you’ve been betrayed so it’s hard for you to trust. You’ve had absent parents and this gave you anxious attachment circuits, making you a needy mess with a deep fear of being abandoned. 

Most of the time, it’s not that simple. You’re anxious just because. Your parents praised you and gave you everything, yet still, you cannot help feeling like a failure. No matter how much your partner loves you, it never seems enough. YOU are not enough. Or you may feel mortally lonely. Even surrounded by people, you never feel like you belong. 

These are all subconscious patterns that cannot be addressed with coaching or traditional talk therapy because they are not accessible via the conscious mind. 

This is where hypnotherapy offers a truly unique approach. Just like a malfunctioning computer requires specialist skills to remove faulty program and install new updates, so our brain needs specialised tools and knowledge to be made to function optimally. 

As a Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist, I understand how childhood wounds, previous relationship trauma, fears and anxieties impact romantic relationships at a very deep level and affect how we show up in the world. 

I combine coaching, hypnotherapy and Neuro-Linguistic Programming skills to develop tailor-made programs that enable you to rewrite your life story, manifest healthy positive connections and create extraordinary relationships. 

 

YOUR NEXT STEP

Book Your Hypnotherapy Discovery Call Today.

In this 30 minutes Zoom call we will identify the core subconscious patterns that keep you stuck and define your individual path to healing.