Meet Valentina Tudose

Hong Kong’s No. 1 Relationship Coach

I help women seeking happiness and balance in their love life confidently reinvent themselves and redefine their relationships so they can unlock their potential to master every facet of life.

I’ve assisted hundreds of women on a transformative journey of self-discovery and empowerment, guiding them to embrace their inner strength and rewrite their Love Maps with courage and resilience.

Through personalized strategies and unwavering support, I empower them to reclaim their sense of purpose, reignite their passions, and navigate life transitions with grace and confidence.

My programs inspire women to cultivate a renewed sense of self-worth, encouraging them to embrace their unique qualities as a source of power and authenticity, so they can create relationships filled with purpose, passion, and unyielding optimism.

I discovered Relationship Coaching at a time in my life when I myself was looking for meaning and purpose.

I had a successful corporate career, a functional long term relationship, life was going on day by day but, at 39, I felt a bit lost. Like many people, I experienced a midlife crisis.

I had no idea what I wanted to do with my life when I had an epiphany.

I realised I felt most alive when I could help people have happier, more connected relationships. Whether it was single friends struggling with modern dating or couples on endless dry spells, I was able to use my own personal experience and all the lessons I’ve learned to help them find happiness and peace.

I noticed that everyone was looking for love but very few people actually knew how to make it fun – and, more importantly, how to make it last. Even fewer people felt they had the power to make it happen!

Looking back at my own life that was not really surprising …

Like most people, I didn’t grow up in the perfect family.

My parents did their best and taught me a lot, but they didn’t encourage me to explore relationships, focusing my attention on school and the usual “stay away from boys, they are a distraction”.

I didn’t really date until I was in my 20’s. My interactions with potential partners were very guarded because I was afraid of being hurt. I said to myself, “If I don’t show my feelings, people will not be able to hurt me.”

This was the Love Map I started my Relationship Journey with: Love hurts and the only way to stay protected is to never open up.

I was lucky to meet several wonderful people who taught me about intimacy and vulnerability, connection and balance, and helped me rewrite this program.

It took a few heartbreaks, walking away from relationships and ultimately losing the love of my life for me to actually understand what true love really was.

These relationships – the happiness and the pain they brought me – also helped me discover who I really was!

My strength, my independence, my self-worth, what makes me special and real, gave me the power to be myself. Without judgement, without apologies.

I decided to go on a search and learn to help others.

Many years of study of different disciplines and 10 years of practice of coaching hundreds of people from the ages of 17 to 70, in all stages of relationships, have taught me the most important lesson of all:

Love is unconditional but relationships are not.

Despite what we may believe, living happily ever after is not just about finding the right person but it’s a lot more about learning new skills, approaching relationships with vulnerability, positive intentions and applying consistent effort to make it last.

I am here to offer you that: a path to learning those skills, supporting you to create Extraordinary Relationships.

I’ve put the lessons from my story into programs that incorporate all my life learnings and all the professional skills I’ve accumulated to help you rewrite all your unproductive relationship patterns (aka. Your Love Map) and help you create your very own version of an EXTRAORDINARY LIFE.

Wherever you are in your relationship journey and whatever your current block may be, I have a plan for you.

Check out the different in-person and online programs I have developed and start your transformation today.

Let’s rewrite your Love Map.

Success Stories

Many clients have left behind a life of depression, emptiness and pain to experience joy and freedom, clarity and strength and created their own extraordinary relationships.

Siena, who used to think love was not on the cards for her, is now married to the man of her dreams, bought a house in France and has just retrained as a coach

Nathalie who struggled to patch things up with her husband, is excitedly planning her new chapter in Europe restarting her life after a 24 years marriage
Elisabeth is enjoying her brand new relationship after years of struggling with attachment and self esteem issues
Melissa is boldly embracing her new identity as an entrepreneur and single woman, after her youngest left for college and she put her divorce behind her

Are you going to be next?

Let me help you RISE and create that Extraordinary Life you deserve.


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