What you don’t know WILL hurt you! Do something about it.

 

Knowledge is power. Right?

 

There has never been a time in the history of the world when so much knowledge was available to nearly everyone. Literally at our fingertips. It should give us the tools to find peace, in and outside of ourselves.

And yet!… We live in fear. Fear of what may happen next and what we cannot control. (Well, what we THINK we ought to be able to control.)

Anxiety is the word on everyone’s lips and keeping everyone awake at night.

There is indeed a lot to worry about in the outside world.

And even more on the inside.

Our hearts and relationships are under siege.

 

In today’s fast-evolving world, relationships face new complexities—from AI-driven dating algorithms to the paradox of hyper-connectivity yet deep emotional disconnection.

We feel lost. We yearn for the simplicity of meeting people naturally, falling in love, speaking our minds and hearts, and not feeling like we have to play games to ‘get the guy’ (or girl).

So we seek answers in sometimes surprising places. (How many of you have asked ChatGPT to help you write a text message for someone you love and didn’t know how to express your feelings?)

That’s because, even with all the knowledge and science in the world, there are things that we cannot see and we cannot explain.

And yet, they EXIST. Their energy is heavy some times and reassuring at others.

That’s when we need to seek beyond AI or common wisdom and go back to the wild unknown.

A Discovery of Witches

If you told me 5 years ago I’d be reading tarot, I sure would have laughed in your face.

When I started learning the cards, it was because all my knowledge and science about relationships, the mind, patterns and healing no longer seemed enough. I needed answers beyond these dimensions. I felt the need to see ‘beyond the veil’. Because yes, what we don’t know, can definitely hurt us.

I thought of it as a game, a way to pass the time during Covid.

But then, I did some readings for my friends. Soon, the messages started coming.

“I just got engaged, just as you told me I would.”

“Guess what? I am pregnant with twins just as the cards said”.

But more importantly, “I went to therapy because of your reading. I finally found the source of my unhappiness!”

This made me think.

Tarot is not magic.

Tarot is a manifestation tool. The cards are a snapshot into the quantum world. They are like a screenshot of the reality we are in at any given moment – but also doorways into our desired future. Which as can CREATE.

They offer us information and insights into WHAT MIGHT BE. A glimpse into a parallel reality. A way to reveal unknown data and add it into our decision-making paradigm.

For relationships, this is priceless.

So much of our pain in love is due to old patterns and broken defence mechanisms. Beliefs and stories of the past that are being reflected to us by our partners. And the terrible insecurity of how the other feels about us.

But what if we could get more clarity on why we act the way we do, or even better, what blocks us from changing those things that hurt us?

Like all things unknown and hard to explain, Tarot often causes either fear or contempt.

Because it’s easier to dismiss what we do not understand than seek answers beyond the obvious.

Tarot isn’t about predicting the future; it’s a mirror reflecting subconscious truths.

A skilled reader with powerful intuition can reveal hidden emotional blocks (like how past traumas affect your ability to trust others), power imbalances, communication gaps, but also potential pathways forward: whether there is a way towards reconciliation, growth, or release of a relationship that has served its purpose.

Is your relationship in need of a check-up?

Sometimes, the universe nudges us toward clarity. This may be that nudge.

You might need a Love Diagnostic Reading if:

✔ You feel stuck in repetitive arguments with no resolution.

✔ You’re unsure whether to stay, leave, or open the relationship.

✔ You crave deeper intimacy but fear vulnerability.

✔ External pressures (work, family, social media) are straining your bond.

 

Send me a message if you’d like to explore how to reveal subconscious fears or desires influencing your relationship, or understand if you have powerful karmic or past-life ties (if that resonates with you).

A Love Blocks Reading can offer you actionable steps you can take to resolve the issue, whether that’s couples’ therapy, a tough conversation, or self-love practices.

So what are you waiting for? The Universe is ready to give you the answers you seek.

 

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I am Valentina Tudose
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