Experience Extraordinary Relationships
with Hong Kong’s No.1 Relationship Coach
Are you stuck in a relationship that doesn’t make any sense?
Do you desperately need a change and, even though you think you tried everything, nothing seems to work?
There comes a time most of us reach this crossroads.
Years of unbearable loneliness waiting for ‘the One’, the painful end of a relationship you thought was going to last forever, a partner who has become distant and resentful and leaving you empty and adrift or a career gone stale and a general sense of helplessness and doom…
These are all very familiar ‘walls’ we all hit sooner or later, and we rarely know how to move on.
That is also when the biggest breakthroughs happen, but we often cannot do it alone. Once we find an ally who can help us create a map for the future, we can set ourselves up for success.
Let me be that ally and help you map your new Extraordinary Life.
I’m Valentina, Hong Kong’s No. 1 Relationship Coach
My purpose as your Relationship Coach is to help you rewrite your Love Map so you can experience extraordinary relationships.
This Love Map is the intricate web of patterns created by all your mental, emotional, and physical experiences, shaping the very essence of your romantic relationships.
Much of this map remains concealed in your subconscious. I help you reveal the reasons why some people captivate your attention and others don’t, how your unmet needs create all your conflicts and why events that happened far back in early childhood prevent you from experiencing genuine and long-lasting love.
I combine knowledge from coaching, hypnotherapy, neuroscience and biology to help you figure out why things didn’t work out your way and rewire your brain to create a new reality, reframing what’s damaging and enhancing what’s helping you succeed.
Whatever your quest – the love you waited for forever, a deeper sense of intimacy with your existing partner or the freedom to live your life on your own terms – I help you RISE.
Together, we create a brand-new trajectory for your life and a future full of infinite possibilities.
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Here is how we can work together
QUEEN RISING
Reignite Your Spark and Master Your Life Path
LOVE COMPASS
Your Journey to Extraordinary Relationships
LOVE ALCHEMY
Rekindle, Transform, and Reinvent Your Relationship
UNBREAKABLE
Rediscovering Strength and Hope After Heartbreak
HEALING LOVE
Rewire your brain for deeper connections.
Valentina has been integral to not only holding me together during one of the most complicated and heart-rendering times of my life but enabled me to greatly improve my life, my relationships and my vision for my future.
I needed to make a very important decision about where my life was going and I felt completely powerless. Valentina helped me discover confidence I didn’t even know I had! I was able to find the courage to make decisions and communicate them to people around me in a way that changed my life.
L.A. | United Arab Emirates
I met Valentina during one of the most difficult periods of my life. She supported, listened and guided me in the best way possible. Not only did she help me rebuild my life, I came out the other end more confident, sure of myself and happier than I’ve ever been. She was definitely my guardian angel when I didn’t even know I needed one.
I had hit a wall in my long-distance relationship of several years. My partner and I tried relationship coaching for the first time with Valentina. I was extremely nervous but she was amazing! She not only put my nerves at ease but also helped me reach clarity in my relationship. It brought a breakthrough in communication between my partner and me. I wish I worked with her sooner!
D.G. | New York City
Valentina is insightful and experienced when it comes to understanding and interpreting our most treasured relationships. Although very successful in my work and outer life, I was so lonely and didn’t know how to break out of the cycle. Valentina gave me useful tools to work with and a renewed perspective on how to view myself, significant others and our place in the world.
M.Y. | Toronto, Canada
My husband and I were very bad at dealing with conflicts so we’ve reached out to a marriage counselor to help us solve this problem. That experience cannot compare to what we have learned with Valentina. Her coaching method was practical and effective. The tailored communication tools she introduced to us helped focus on the solution rather than the problem, which has been very effective in resolving arguments.
D. & J. | Hong Kong
Working with Valentina, I was reminded of the importance of taking my power back when dating, putting myself first and learning to be detached because what is meant to happen, will. It all sounds pretty cliché, but it works! It has helped me mentally to step back and enjoy me! Thanks, Valentina, you’re fantastic at what you do!
Until I met Valentina, I had not realized I was twisting myself into a pretzel to “make relationships work” and then ended up feeling deprived, depleted and just bankrupt. By helping me clarify my needs and requirements, she enabled me to tune in to a better outlook on life. As a result of this invaluable lesson, I was able to find my soul mate and I am excited to be planning our wedding and our new life together.
B.W. | New York City, USA
I was dating 2 men and didn’t know how to choose between them. Valentina helped me discover my dealbreakers and needs, understand myself better and determine which one was my ideal partner. She also helped when I got lost and guided me to see things in different ways. I am now planning my wedding with my chosen partner.
Valentina is a star! My husband and I have been meeting with her for a few months now and her insight, exercises and emotional guidance have helped us become an even stronger team then we thought ever possible. We leave her after every meeting with renewed energy in our relationship and look forward to the future together and all the exciting things we have planned.
Valentina, you are phenomenal! The way you provide your neutral perspective on issues and always keep the best interest of your client in mind makes your more than just dating coach, this is what friends do for each other. It’s easy to feel lost when one is in distress, but how you dissect the problem from different angles has helped me to see other available options. I can’t stress enough how relieved I am after meeting with you! You ROCK!!
Working with Valentina has been a transformative experience. My initial goal was to rediscover myself, and through her guidance, I’ve come to see myself—and my relationships—through a much more expansive and empowered lens.
Valentina’s coaching comes from deep, lived experience. Her authenticity creates a space where you feel both seen and challenged in the best possible way. Her approach is intuitive, grounded, and deeply intentional. I feel a stronger connection to myself and a more open heart toward the people in my life.
Valentina took me from understanding my childhood patterns to reworking the way I want my life to be. One of the most important things she does, I don’t think a lot of coaches or therapists do … she SAYS IT AS IT IS .
She challenged me, even when it was uncomfortable, to see it the way it is, sit with it and accept it.
She then gave me strategies to work on what I wanted my life to be.
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