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You’re here because:

✓ You’ve sacrificed for love, yet still feel lonely—even when they’re right beside you

✓ Every argument loops back to the same unresolved hurt (“We’ve had this fight 100 times!”)

✓ You’re exhausted from overgiving to a partner who doesn’t match your effort

✓ Secretly, you wonder: “Will I ever feel truly chosen—not just settled for?”

The problem isn’t you. It’s doing solo what requires a guide.

I’m Valentina, Hong Kong’s No. 1 Relationship Coach

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🔹 Finally crack the code of your recurring conflicts (no more deja-fight!)

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Valentina has been integral to not only holding me together during one of the most complicated and heart-rendering times of my life but enabled me to greatly improve my life, my relationships and my vision for my future.

K.R.G | Hong Kong


I needed to make a very important decision about where my life was going and I felt completely powerless. Valentina helped me discover confidence I didn’t even know I had! I was able to find the courage to make decisions and communicate them to people around me in a way that changed my life.

L.A. | United Arab Emirates

I met Valentina during one of the most difficult periods of my life. She supported, listened and guided me in the best way possible. Not only did she help me rebuild my life, I came out the other end more confident, sure of myself and happier than I’ve ever been. She was definitely my guardian angel when I didn’t even know I needed one.

K.B. | Hong Kong

 

I had hit a wall in my long-distance relationship of several years. My partner and I tried relationship coaching for the first time with Valentina. I was extremely nervous but she was amazing! She not only put my nerves at ease but also helped me reach clarity in my relationship. It brought a breakthrough in communication between my partner and me. I wish I worked with her sooner!

D.G. | New York City

 

My husband and I were very bad at dealing with conflicts so we’ve reached out to a marriage counselor to help us solve this problem. That experience cannot compare to what we have learned with Valentina. Her coaching method was practical and effective. The tailored communication tools she introduced to us helped focus on the solution rather than the problem, which has been very effective in resolving arguments.

D. & J. | Hong Kong

Working with Valentina, I was reminded of the importance of taking my power back when dating, putting myself first and learning to be detached because what is meant to happen, will. It all sounds pretty cliché, but it works! It has helped me mentally to step back and enjoy me! Thanks, Valentina, you’re fantastic at what you do!

K.C. | Hong Kong

 


Until I met Valentina, I had not realized I was twisting myself into a pretzel to “make relationships work” and then ended up feeling deprived, depleted and just bankrupt. By helping me clarify my needs and requirements, she enabled me to tune in to a better outlook on life. As a result of this invaluable lesson, I was able to find my soul mate and I am excited to be planning our wedding and our new life together.

B.W. | New York City, USA

Valentina is a star! My husband and I have been meeting with her for a few months now and her insight, exercises and emotional guidance have helped us become an even stronger team then we thought ever possible. We leave her after every meeting with renewed energy in our relationship and look forward to the future together and all the exciting things we have planned.

J. S. | Hong Kong

Valentina, you are phenomenal!   The way you provide your neutral perspective on issues and always keep the best interest of your client in mind makes your more than just dating coach, this is what friends do for each other.   It’s easy to feel lost when one is in distress, but how you dissect the problem from different angles has helped me to see other available options. I can’t stress enough how relieved I am after meeting with you!   You ROCK!!

K.C. | Hong Kong 

Working with Valentina has been a transformative experience. My initial goal was to rediscover myself, and through her guidance, I’ve come to see myself—and my relationships—through a much more expansive and empowered lens.
Valentina’s coaching comes from deep, lived experience. Her authenticity creates a space where you feel both seen and challenged in the best possible way. Her approach is intuitive, grounded, and deeply intentional. I feel a stronger connection to myself and a more open heart toward the people in my life.

C.W. | Seattle, USA

Valentina took me from understanding my childhood patterns to reworking the way I want my life to be. One of the most important things she does, I don’t think a lot of coaches or therapists do … she SAYS IT AS IT IS .

She challenged me, even when it was uncomfortable, to see it the way it is, sit with it and accept it.

She then gave me strategies to work on what I wanted my life to be.

S.C.| Singapore

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