Did you know that couples can use pornography to enhance their sex lives? Surprised? Well, you’re not alone. Pornography is seen as a perversion of human sexuality and in relationships, it is usually viewed from a negative perspective. However, the truth is that everyone needs mental stimulation. Once the fireworks settle down and couples move into a routine in the relationship, sex also becomes a routine.

Of course, if porn is used a substitute for a loving bond with your partner, that can be harmful to your relationship. Used correctly, it can serve as a tool for safe exploration for both partners. In this month’s The Naked Truth column, I discuss this controversial topic with Luisa Tam. Read more: https://www.scmp.com/lifestyle/families/article/2159191/why-relationships-coach-says-couples-can-use-pornography-enhance